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The Financial Disadvantages of My Solo Polyamorous Lifestyle

Despite the advantages of self partnership and living alone, there’s a high price to pay for my independent life

10 min readJan 29, 2024

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The Financial Disadvantages of My Solo Polyamorous Lifestyle

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Polyamory Today

Keeping Your Relationship Healthy: How to Navigate Toxic Behavior from Metamours

Boundaries and active communication are the only way to keep your relationships healthy.

9 min readJul 3, 2023

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Keeping Your Relationship Healthy: How to Navigate Toxic Behavior from Metamours

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How I Knew My Heart Found Romantic Love Again

And why I chose to embrace it ❤

6 min readMar 22, 2023

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How I Knew My Heart Found Romantic Love Again

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Amanda Pakutz

Buy Yourself Flowers

Because you deserve it, just like me. ❤

3 min readJan 25, 2023

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Buy Yourself Flowers

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Amanda Pakutz

Finding Comfort in Impermanence

Embracing each moment is sometimes the only way to find comfort when the future is uncertain.

5 min readJan 25, 2023

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Finding Comfort in Impermanence

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Amanda Pakutz

My Polyamory Penumbra

An experience led me to understand some "grey areas" of non-monogamy.

8 min readNov 12, 2022

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My Polyamory Penumbra

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Polyamory Today

Obsession Does Not Equal Love

Frequent texting doesn't necessarily strengthen your new relationships, and it may cause tension within existing relationships in your life

7 min readNov 4, 2022

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Obsession Does Not Equal Love

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Polyamory Today

How to Reject Noncompatible People You Care About When You Are Polyamorous

My mantra: even though I can have multiple partners, it does not mean everyone is a good match for me.

6 min readSep 10, 2022

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How to Reject Noncompatible People You Care About When You Are Polyamorous

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Connecting With Past Friends

NOW is the best time to let old friends know you miss them.

4 min readJun 21, 2022

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Connecting With Past Friends

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Amanda Pakutz
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Polyamory Today

How to Decode Text Messages as a Polyamorous Person

A case study in reading between the lines and choosing which questions to ask

7 min readJun 8, 2022

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Amanda Pakutz

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I am passionate about teaching, dancing, and making a difference in the world. Enjoy my philosophical and entertaining musings!

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